Silence is golden

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As we officially enter “the busy season” try to remember that silence is golden.

Silence can help restore your peace of mind. Try holding your tongue when you are tired or cross, or when someone offends you or is looking for a fight. Then watch how quickly they lose interest in you. The holidays make many people fractious, anxious, and angry. If you remain calm and above all quiet in the face of hot tempers and frustrated egos, tempers cool faster.

And restore your own energy in blissful silence with a cup of tea, on a yoga mat, or in a hot bath. You may be surprised at how refreshed you feel after a few moments away from the din.

Make time for the things you enjoy and the people you love because, my darlings that is truly where the sweet life lies.

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Stress less over the holidays


If the holidays stress you out try these simple tips to help put the “joy” back into enjoying the holidays!

Make a budget

Overspending and worrying about money are major causes of stress no matter what your income.  Set a budget and stick to it. You cannot buy “the perfect holiday,” so don’t try.  Children’s expectations fueled by advertising can make it difficult to control spending, so choose special gifts together. Be kind and matter-of-fact. Make it fun and thoughtful; most children understand and will enjoy planning things together. When it comes to friends and family be thoughtful and creative.  These days quality time is the best gift of all.  Bake cookies, have tea, stay up late with a bottle of wine, or have a nice dinner.  Even a nice long phone call can mean a lot, but these days it is a good idea to plan ahead so both of you can enjoy your chat.


Make a plan and use lists

If you have a lot to do make a plan and use lists to keep organized. It sounds simple, but many people who are on top of everything at the office never take time to schedule busy periods in their personal lives. Use a calendar or planner to avoid overbooking! I use my Outlook calendar to plan. It keeps me from overscheduling or double-booking. I look at it several times a day when things get hectic. It helps me to keep on top of what needs to done. It is also helpful to plan errands and to avoid repeat trips to the same places when holiday traffic is heavy. Most importantly, keeping an eye on my calendar helps me to download (8)say no. Just looking at a very full day or week is enough for me say without hesitation, “I would love to but I really can’t right now!” It is easy because it is the truth. Earlier this year when my calendar went down for a few weeks my schedule was a mess. I double-booked and even missed an appointment! 

Shop online, it will save time and money. If you must or prefer shops, then go early in the morning if you can, or late at night to avoid crowds. 

Buy stamps and mail packages now! Use click and ship for everything else. It is easy.  

Consider using e-greetings for the bulk of your holiday greetings. You will save trees, time, and money! And you can send joyful wishes to many people.


Eat well. Use your calendar or planner to organize your meals. Eat lightly between “feast days.”  Follow heavy eating days with light eating days of clear soup, salads, steamed vegetables, and fish or chicken. Skip alcohol, soda, dairy or juice and have herbal teas, green tea and water, even coffee. It is all about balance. I read about this approach in a book by Deborah Szekely, the founder of Golden Door, the first mind-body spa. It is a simple idea, but I have never read a better one. 

Party food – even if you are good – is usually full of dairy, fats, and sugar. And if you had a few drinks give your body a break. A glass of wine a day can be fine, but parties usually mean more than one, so a day or two on the light diet is a good way to balance the calories and other effects. 

Exercise for energy and serenity. When you are stressed you really need to make time for exercise. It changes your brain chemistry and floods you with endorphins.  Vary your exercise to match your mood. If you are tired or stressed, try a restorative or gentle-flow yoga class. If you feel antsy and aggravated, go for a vigorous yoga class, barre class, or cardio class. Exercise rewires your mind and body! 

Learn to pamper yourself. You don’t need a crowded spa at the holidays. Seek out private experts, recommended by trusted friends, who can soothe and revitalize you in a serene private space. Learn to enjoy a mask in a soothing mineral soak or after a relaxing shower.  Embrace the quiet.



Rescue me, naturally!

It’s been all the rage among European fashionistas and jet setters for years. Now, Bach’s Rescue Remedy can rescue you from any situation. The new range of Rescue Remedy includes new sprays to provide an energy boost or help you to drift off to sleep. The range has added Rescue Pastilles in addition to the sprays.
Dr. Edward Bach created the original Rescue Remedy 60 years ago. He also created Bach Flower Essences to address the emotional causes of illness. The Rescue Remedy is totally natural and contains five of the 38 Bach Flower Essences: Rock Rose for terror and panic, Impatiens for irritation and impatience, Clematis for inattentiveness, Star of Bethlehem for shock, and Cherry Plum.
Dr. Bach created the Rescue Remedy for stressful situations. Use it to help calm nerves jangled from traffic, overwork, or any type of stress. I have always liked the Rescue Remedy since I first discovered when I was working as an editor for Russian Vogue. I use to put a few drops in a glass of cold water or under my tongue and took time out for a few deep breaths.
If you like a natural approach to stress management, Rescue Remedy may be for you.