Not a Slave to Fashion,

Art Director of My Own Life!

Every season brings an onslaught of new looks and an endless list of must-have items. It’s overwhelming. At certain times of my life, I have tried to get it all. What a disaster. As I got a bit older I noticed more and more of my friends just opting out of ‘fashion”. They bought new things, but stopped keeping up with trends. They found it all too much. They didn’t relate to the over-the top spreads in their formerly favourite fashion glossies. No fashion at all is just too depressing.
Some women of means solve their shopping problems by sticking to just a few posh shops. They pick their booty from the racks or use a personal shopper. It’s not a bad strategy if you have loads of cash, time, and a defined personal style. Younger friends complain that prices are sky high, and they never seem to get all they need to feel “just right” no matter what they buy. They either buy too much or go the opt-out-route. Neither is a happy solution.
A perfect “IT “dress simple and shiny. A classic by Alice and Olivia.


I find making a check list of basics needed to up-date my wardrobe works for me. I am then free to trawl the racks of my favourite shops and internet sites with a sense of purpose. I can call ahead to my favourite shops and ask if they have an item that I know I will want. I can also snag a hot item before it sells out. Sure, I still fall impetuously in love with a bargain or fabulous thing I don’t need, but must have, but that is after I have my wardrobe basics covered.
If this sounds elementary, then darling you must look smashing and always feel very chic and ahead of the curve. If it all sounds like too much time and trouble, ask yourself how much you stress over clothes now. Do you always feel fabulous and up to the minute? Do you garner compliments on your outfits and accessories? Trust me darling, at any age and on any budget, looking smashing is more about planning than spending. Although spending is nice, it doesn’t ensure being chic.
Think of women whose look you admire. It’s that little “je ne sais quoi” that comes from the right little accessory and the total look. You know full well some women can - and do - hang all of Bergdorf Goodman’s on themselves and still look dreadful.

D&G Dolce and Gabbana Metallic Python Bootie: a splurge but an instant wow!


The easiest way to update your look this year is with patent leather. Black patent is the easiest to find and to wear. Look for a wonderful black patent shoe, boot, bootie, bag, or even a head band. A black patent trench is absolutely killer glam!
The bootie is the “it” shoe this year. Worn with black or brown tights, it works with skirts if you have mile long legs. It’s a star with pants.
Think simple tailored shifts for daytime, in one of the hot, hot, colours: bright pink, red, or yellow! Black is back and it’s shiny with sequins and beads. It’s a stellar look for evenings and available at every price point! H&M has a killer beaded black dress under $50.
Turtlenecks in jewel tones with new the higher-waisted pant are a very hot look.
If you love turtlenecks, this is the year to hunt them down in your favourite shades.
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This is a great year for all knits. From rich luxe sweaters worn with cozy mufflers in cold climates to sleek sweater dresses, take your pick sweater girls.

Sweater girls can be simple and sweet


Look for a fabulous pair of pants with a high-waist. You can get a wider leg or stay very skinny; both look fresh with the new waistline. Finish the look with narrow belt of shiny snakeskin. If you have tummy issue, belt over your sweater.
Also if you love grey or brown there are plenty of basics available in both colours. Think of getting a good pair of pants and fabulous sweater in either colour if it suits you.
A shiny clutch at a fab price says chic.


You need belts this year. A belt is an instant update. But if you can’t wear belts, focus on a fabulous shiny bag. The newest look is a clutch. Get a small jeweled or snakeskin clutch for evening and maybe a big shiny tote for day.
While platform shoes are the rage and really work for some people, many designers are showing gorgeous stilettos and boots. It’s great to have choice. What ties all these looks together for daytime is dark hose. I have stocked up on opaque black and brown stockings with a slight sheen. All my favourite dark shiny pumps peep toes, and sling backs work with these comfy and chic hose.
I’m also pulling out all my classic and kooky pins and broaches to scatter across my jacket labels and sweaters this fall. It’s a great way to wear bling and keep a clean sexy neckline. I want to mix and match them. I also a have few fabulous art deco pieces to add glitz to plain black dresses that lack this year’s necessary sparkle.
So darlings, be smashing this fall. Be hip, be glam - whatever that means to you. Take time to think and plan your look. You are worth it. Clothes are pricey and a little planning goes a long to always feeling great when you go out. Remember, you are not a slave to fashion, but mistress of your own wardrobe and art director of your life!
 
Susan Farber

Beautiful Baggage

Susan Farber, the woman behind some of the most beautiful new bags we have seen, chats with DolceDolce readers about the inspiration behind her gorgeous bags. They’ve been seen on trend-setting shows such as Desperate Housewives. They have been spotted on the arms of Debra Messing, Eva Longoria and Sharon Stone. And, I confess, I have my eye on a Sofia clutch or Nina Hobo in black patent!
DD: Ideally how many bags does a woman need in her wardrobe?
SF: More and more handbags are seen as a true accessory, something that completes an outfit, whether you are walking into a party dressed in all black carrying a clutch in a fabulous red or another great color that makes the outfit "pop," going to work, or shopping, or carry a great looking and durable everyday bag. Taking the kids to school or going to the pool, carrying a light and conventional bag can do the trick. It isn't really about a number, but more the way a handbag really has become an easy way to complete an outfit for a great look.
DD: What are the hottest trends for fall?
SF: From daytime affairs to evening parties, bow bags are everywhere this fall season! Some of the more prominent trends for fall include: hair calfs, patents, or rich leathers in jewel tones, metallics, or any rich hues. The traditional neutral shades expected for fall have been enhanced this season with more interesting and unexpected color combinations, such as sapphire, olive, marigold, pewter, gold, or red - all in beautiful patents or leather metallics.
DD: What distinguishes a quality handbag? Materials? Details etc?
SF: Materials are the number one most important aspect in distinguishing a quality handbag. This includes texture and color. For instance, patents are so strong for this season. There is such a variation in patent leather quality. Patent looks a lot richer when applied to beautiful laundered leather; the result is depth and texture. Shape, function, and comfort are also important. Sometimes less is more, it is important to let the materials speak for themselves.
DD: Which bag are you carrying now?
SF: A Small Riley in black patent.
Small Riley by Susan Farber

DD: Is there a trick to organizing your handbag?
SF: Utilizing the pockets and compartments is a great idea, especially the cell phone pocket so that your phone doesn't ever get misplaced. Also, using smaller makeup bags as portable/transferable pockets is an easy way to keep organized and also helpful when switching handbags.
DD: What inspires you as designer?
SF: Everything - whether it's a painting, architecture, nature, or a great hairstyle.
DD: How should you care for a fine handbag?
SF: Most leather designer bags are not treated. This allows the bags to age gracefully and with the character expected from a designer bag, making them distinct and unique. Keep your bag away from makeup, food, or any other oil-based product which can stain. When you are not using your bag, store it in a protective cloth container. The very first thing you should do is treat your handbag with a leather protector to prevent stains from setting in. No matter how careful you are, at some point your likely to leave a mark on it and the leather protection will not allow it to soak in, so you’ll be able to more easily remove it. Depending on the type of leather and the finish, will depend on the cleaning method used. If you’re not sure, you can take it to professional leather cleaner that will have the expertise to remove the stain.

To order or view the line www.susanfarbercollections.com
 
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Food

Tony Treat

Just because you’re not a kid anymore doesn’t mean your don’t crave a childhood treat. But if you are anything like me, you’ll love the posh grown-up version even more. Even the savvy small fry I know these days are likely to go for Danish over pop-tarts and Fettuccini Alfredo over Kraft dinner. So if you loved marshmallows as a kid, Plush Puffs are for you. These are gourmet marshmallows come in flavours such as Vanilla Bean, Toasted Coconut, and Chocolate Chipetta, just to name a few. The Chipetta is what it sounds like - a chocolaty puff studded with chips.

Plush Puffs a gourmet goodie!

Plush Puffs are yummy to snack on or cook with. They’re not too disastrous to your diet either at about 90 calories for 5 big puffs - give or take by my counter. How fabulous is that? Munch them, toast them, and stash them or they’ll be gone.
www.plushpuffs.com
L’Oreal Paris Emmy Gift to Julia Louis-Dreyfus
Beauty

More Emmy Glamour

We told you we were mad about this new lip colour from L’Oreal Paris. L’Oreal is so proud of it; they are presenting each of the female acting nominees of this year’s Emmy awards with a commemorative, first-edition Infallible Never Fail LipColour in Cerise, a “Red Carpet Red” that comes in an engraved package with each actress’s monogram and “9/16/07” in recognition of Emmy night. The Emmys will be broadcast September 16th check your local listings.
While you can’t get a personalized compact, you can get the same chic styling and fabulously glam lips with your own shiny compact in sexy-cerise.

Tim Gunn and Victoria Webb

Fashion

Must-See Fashionista TV

Tim Gunn’s Guide to Style on Bravo is must-see TV for fans of Project Runway. Tim Gunn is the most lovable, down-to earth, most empathetic, practical fashion mentor a girl could want. His 10 item wardrobe plan is workable for most women. Co-host Veronica Webb has her moments too, but too but he is the star. He is as lovable as he is suave, and that is no easy feat. Tune in and see Professor Tim transform a new Eliza Doolittle each week.
Food

Fast Food That is Good For you!

Many people still think of pork as greasy and heavy, and it’s just not true. Now, pork is bred to be lean and healthy - and as the National Pork Board says, it’s the “other white meat”. Pork tenderloin serves 3-4 people. If you slice it, it will cook up in minutes. It will also stay tender and juicy while absorbing flavours very well from spices and marinades. If you don’t have a roast - and I seldom do - cooked and sliced tenderloin would work well as substitute in our recipe from the National Pork Board. Pork is now actually recommended as heart-healthy food, when prepared properly. Grab tenderloin, slice and sauté; it can be fast food, too.
Congratulations to the pork people for their National Eat Dinner Together Week campaign, which generated this recipe.
Curried Pork and Apple Salad
1 1/4 cups leftover roasted pork, diced into 1/2-inch pieces
1 small Granny Smith apple, cored and diced into 1/2-inch pieces
1 stalk celery, diced into 1/2-inch pieces
2 scallions, white and light green parts only, thinly sliced
2 to 3 tablespoons mayonnaise, to taste
1 1/2 teaspoons red wine vinegar
1/2 to 3/4 teaspoon curry powder or garam macula, to taste
Salt and freshly ground black pepper, to taste
6 leaves green leaf lettuce
Combine diced pork, apples, celery and scallions in bowl. Set aside. Combine mayonnaise and vinegar and curry powder or garam masala. Add to pork mixture and season to taste with salt and pepper. Line two serving plates with lettuce leaves. Divide pork salad in half and place a mound in center of each plate. Makes 2 servings
Recipe by Chefs: Mary Sue Milliken and Susan Feniger.
Another week darlings, and we are smack in September. But summer lingers in the air. I refuse to be rushed through anything; life is too sweet to hurry as much as everyone wants us to. I say savor. You won’t come this way again. So no matter what you cook, make dinner for someone you love this week, especially if you live alone. Dining together for families and singles is so important, it’s the board that binds. Treat yourself to a little red carpet glamour; after all you should know you’re a star. I do and no one will convince me to the contrary!
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Gracey Hitchcock
Editor
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