Wear Red to Bed … Lipstick is back
Lipstick is back. Real movie star, glamour-puss, grown-up lipstick. So paint your lips. Pout. Go “Ooo” and make a Parisian moue with your mouth. Throw hot pink kisses. Leave your mark when you kiss him.
Hot red lipstick like Charlie Revson at Revlon made - back again. Pale pink lipstick like your mother wore is at the store once more. Shocking Pink lipstick, just like Shiaparelli sold, is sending out waves - and getting raves again.
So lose your head. Wear red. Blot your lips and wear it to bed! Lipstick is back.
Image: Natalie Nguyen

Dove’s Pro-Age Has Nothing to Hide
Dove’s new advertising campaign of nude "real-life" women over 50 for their new Pro-age cosmetic line is causing quite a stir. As part of this campaign, Dove commissioned a “global survey” of women over 50 about their attitudes on aging. Not surprisingly, they found that the majority of women surveyed felt society needed to change its attitude about age and beauty.
The new Pro-age line is just what it says it is -- products designed to meet the needs of aging skin. As skin gets older, it can’t hold onto moisture, and the cell turn-over rate slows down. The answer: lock in moisture and exfoliate to speed up cell turn-over. And -- as always -- avoid sun damage with sun protection.
This is a huge product launch with everything from shampoo and deodorant to eye cream. It’s well-priced, chicly packaged, and sure to appeal to Dove lovers. Key ingredients: olive oil for moisture and its anti-oxidant properties, and glycerin to lock in moisture. AHA is used in some products to exfoliate.
Two products I really like from this huge line-up are Pro-age Neck and Chest Serum -- a product usually found only in really expensive lines. A saggy or wrinkly neck is a real problem for many women over 40 –so bravo for this solution! I also liked the Pro-age Foaming Cleanser because it is very gentle.
Fever At The Oscars, Fever At The Grammy’s – Oh My!
Look for our own art director and photographer Karin Pacione’s hot, hot shots of Balmshell gloss in promotional ads for the fabulous lip-candy that will be part of this year’s Oscar and Grammy gift bags. We told you about Balmshell a few months ago. We love its sweet scent and clever story-line line cases that can be collected as key chains or charms when the gloss is long gone. The stars will be sporting You Give Me Fever! www.balmshell.com

Balmshell Fever at Oscars and Grammy Awards
Image: Karin Pacione

Watch My Lips
Seriously, with all eyes on your mouth this season your lips need to be so-so- smooth. Lips that are cracked, lined or dry won’t look chic, sexy, or healthy.
To have kissable, poutable lips try Olay Regenerist Anti-aging Lip Treatment. Packed with peptides and vitamins, this fabulous little potion takes your lips from ouch to “Ooo la la!” in minutes. Seriously cracked lips may take longer to respond, but it works. The Olay Regenerist Daily Serum from the same line is also packed with fabulous peptides has that same instant smoothing and plumping.
Carmex lip balm in the pot is an old secret of models. The magic is the phenol, which peels off cracked skin and leaves lips baby-soft. Use it only at night, as it doesn’t contain sun-screen. It is amazing – sort of like a facial for your lips.
Now go blow kisses darling. It’s Valentine’s Day.

Factory Girl – Andy Warhol’s Pop Art Revolution thru the Eyes of His Muse

Do you remember Edie Sedgwick? She was the ultimate It Girl of the Warhol Pop Art Days -the era that stretched from the 60s through the 70’s and still influences fashion today. Edie was gorgeous, long-legged, and rich. She wanted to be an artist. Her greatest art was in being herself. She had black false eyelashes, heavy liner, short blond hair, and pale lips. She was striking. For a while she was always on the pages of Vogue. She was the ultimate fashionista - famous for her look. She was a pretty, sad, little rich girl. The movie that stars Sienna Miller and Guy Pearce is fabulously true to the periods, even if there are flaws in the actual story regarding Edie’s love life and other details. The mood and the tragedy of ethereal Edie ring true –she was indeed a modern Holly Golightly –who didn’t. It’s a must-see for anyone who has loved mini-skirts and black tights, old issues of Vogue or thought it would have been great or knows Andy and all those freaky Factory people. It’s a compelling cultural snapshot and tragic little tale to break your heart.
 
Life and Style, Entertainment
What to Do If You Feel Blue on Valentine’s Day
Valentine’s Day is one touchy holiday. You love it or you hate it. It starts in grade school with all the pretty Valentines. Even though parents and teachers try to make Valentine’s Day fun for everyone, sometimes Cupid is a real mean guy. Love is fickle – especially for the young. And hearts are fragile no matter what your age.
Let’s face it: Valentines Day is a one-note holiday and the chord it strikes depends on the tune your love life is playing at any particular moment. So, my darlings -- who have had a star-crossed, instead of a love-struck, year -- here are some of my favourite ways to pass “stupid-cupid day”. If that’s how you’re feeling.
· Organize - don’t cook, or you might feel like Cinderella - a fabulous pot-luck feast with several like-minded friends. Top off the evening by watching War of the Roses, the ugliest divorce comedy ever made, starring Kathleen Turner and Michael Douglas. Being single never looked so good.
· Book yourself the fanciest spa package you can find. Relax, renew, and luxuriate. They say love comes to those who love themselves. If they’re wrong, what’s the harm? You’ll look marvelous!



Much Ado About Nothing with Kenneth Branagh and Emma Thompson
· Embrace romance that doesn’t involve falling in love. Find art, poetry, music, architecture or literature that makes your heart soar. If you are an artist, look outside your own medium. I am not kidding, darlings. We lose touch with this side of ourselves and it’s sad. No matter what work you do, life without random creativity is as flat as day-old champagne.
So, if Valentine’s Day brings you down, darling, shift your focus and fall into something gorgeous. Read Edna St. Vincent Millay - her poetry or her biography Savage Beauty. It’s dramatic, heart-stopping and compelling. Watch Much Ado About Nothing with Kenneth Branagh and Emma Thompson. Listen to Shakespeare’s cutting riposte on love’s foolish travails. Sink into a picture as lush and juicy as a ripe Tuscan peach. Rent the old classic Never on Sunday. Marvel at the beauty of Greek Isles and Marina Mecouri’s walk. Never on Sunday is the story of improbable love between impossible people. The title song will never leave you.



Valentines Day can be sad for people in relationships, too, especially if they’re hitting a few bumps and it doesn’t feel all bright and shiny like “movie love” anymore.
Psychologist Judy E. Hall, PhD has some tips to help relationships get through rough spots and encourage good ones flourish. So take heart, dear DolceDolce lovers: if your love life is less than perfect and your own true love has lost some of the gloss, solid relationships can buff-up too. Here’s what the good doctor has to say:
Sometimes new approaches to old problems provide what it takes to grow and maintain a successful relationship. Try these tips:
· It’s important to remember that the only person you can change in the relationship is you.
· It’s okay to go to sleep when you’re angry at each other. But start the morning afresh.
· Winning shouldn’t be the focus in arguments. What’s important is that you are willing to be gracious and move on. That is catching in a relationship.
· Make feedback work for you. Look for the truth in what is said and make it an opportunity to grow.
· Try resolving disagreements with humor. Get out the nerf ball, and turn conflict into fun. It’s difficult to be angry if we are able to laugh at ourselves.
· Communicate specifics in how you feel. Don’t assume your partner knows.
· Try this exercise: name five strengths your partner has for each trait you consider difficult.
· Make your relationship a priority. Schedule a date night each week.
· Set boundaries on outside intrusions. Find time to be alone together each day.
· Many good relationships flounder over finances. Work together on budgeting for all types of events.
· If you and your partner are unable to resolve your differences, consider consulting a couple’s psychologist. Find someone whom both of you agree, in advance, is acceptable. To do so, go to www.findapsychologist.org
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
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Beauty
I Need Therapy!
February is my winter breaking point. It’s when all the cold, slush, rain, holiday excesses, and winter-fatigue finally kicks and makes me look and feel rough and ragged. It’s time for a little therapy!
Some of my favourite fast mid-winter fixes are from Earth Therapeutics. Intensive Heel Repair and Hand Remedy are little spas in a tube. Both contain AHAs, essential oils, and rich emollients. The scent alone starts my relaxation response. At under $10 for a large tube, I can use the gallons my skin craves this time of year. Try it. It’s so exotic and luxurious, you’ll feel as pampered Cleopatra on her perfumed barge. Divine. Read, rub, and relax. No excuses, you have time it takes minutes. No driving or appointment; just do it yourself at home. Keep some at work too for aromatherapy mini-break. Now don’t you feel better? www.earththerapeutics.com

Life and Style
Have A Little Fun with your Feet
Have you heard of toe reading? Toe-reader and teacher K.C. Miller says that your feet will reveal your state of mind and heart, if you know how “read them” Her theory is that your body records your life. From the shape of your toes to the condition of your nails, feet show your talents, emotions, dreams, and ambitions. Are your feet carved in stone, or do they change over time? According to K.C. they change when you do. Toe-reading is an interesting premise, considering how important shoes and feet have become in fashion over the past decade, not to mention how polarized some women are about “shoe-issues”. To find out what your toes might be telling you, check out www.toereadingonline.com .

Image: Karin Pacione
www.palookaboutique.com
 
Health
Don’t Fall For it Baby
The US Food and Drug Administration have approved Orlistat for sale as an over-the-counter drug for the treatment of over-weight adults. Until now, it was a prescription drug called Xenical. The new over-the-counter version will be sold under the brand name Alli. Capsules are 60 milligrams and come with healthful eating guides and other information designed to help the consumer use the product safely. The original Xenical 120 milligram tablets (approved in Canada) will still be available too for those under doctor’s care.
Obviously it won’t be very hard to get a hold of these new miracle drugs if you are inclined. But should you? Eaten with meals, they block about 25 percent of the fat you eat. The worst side effects involve bowel habits. Symptoms of gas to “leaking” have been mentioned. The tablets work best with a low-fat diet and exercise. There is evidence they useful for the morbidly obese. I am not arguing that point.
My fear is that -- as with gastric banding, stomach stapling, and other diet pills and programs that those who are consistently over-weight by 25-50 pounds – may be ruining their health and even endangering their lives by resorting to these products. Developing healthful eating habits, exercising, and understanding the emotional aspect of overeating are essential for treating all habitual overeaters. Yoyo dieting is hard on your body. It actually ages you, and is hard on your spirit. Even though these pills are over-the-counter, talk to an informed doctor first. Please. If you are under 40, talk to your family doctor or a weight-loss specialist attached to a major hospital or non-commercial clinic. If you are 40 or older, consider a doctor who has a NAMs certification, as weight-gain is part of menopause and they will sensibly assess any weight loss program. Personal trainers at respected clubs with tested nutrional plans can also be a good place to start, but ask about their programs and experience.
Also, if you’re on a budget or fairly young, this won’t sound too glam. But over the years, millions of women have safely lost weight - and more importantly kept if off - with Weight-Watchers and Jenny Craig. Neither are my personal styles. I hate meetings, but WW has a new program with no meetings. I hate prepared food, but many women I know adore Jenny Craig. Here’s the skinny: they work, they are safe, and they are affordable. No starving, no pills, no weird shots. They tell you to exercise. Lots of young, 20-year-old, smart something’s are doing the WW thing.
I can’t pretend this is my big issue. Over the years I have had to gain and lose a few pounds. Once I was a bit more - and not fun. I am lucky I was taught to eat well and came to realize I had better exercise or my bones would collapse. I would not be strong and 20 forever. Darling if you are struggling, you are still beautiful. Beauty is not size but a state. But find something smart and just do it for you to be strong and healthy.

Life, Style, Entertaining
Valentine’s Day is perfect time for a little original sin, so chill a bottle of very dry Italian Prosecco and get ready to play Eve.
Original Sin –So sweet, so tart – so irresistible.
Take chilled champagne flutes and pour ½ ounce chilled sour apple liquor.
Fill the glass to the brim with equally chilled Prosecco.
How different and delicious is that?
So darling DolceDolce readers another sweet week gone. I hope you’ll have a delicious Valentine’s Day either way – romantically inclined with culture, reclined, or perhaps mocking cupid. Winter seems long; life is short. So let’s all find just a little extra sparkle. Why not? Please write and give me your thoughts on sparkle. Do we have enough? Also I love to hear about your favourite beauty finds and what you think of mine.
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Gracey Hitchcock
Editor
 
 
 
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